Searching for an officiant for your wedding or other important ceremony can seem daunting. You want someone to officiate who you feel comfortable with, who you feel really knows you, and who can infuse love and light into the experience. You may have considered asking a friend or family member to officiate for you, but they may not know the steps to take to become an ordained officiant, they may not be comfortable with public speaking, and they may not be able to provide the same guidance an experienced professional officiant can give to ensure your ceremony runs smoothly.
An Ordained Officiant with a Fresh Perspective

Bonnie Foster
Photo by Paul Barnett Photography
Bonnie Foster is an ordained officiant who brings an authentic and fresh perspective to any type of important ceremony. She offers decades of experience at a variety of weddings and special events, including non-denominational, civil, traditional and LGBTQ friendly ceremonies. Bonnie is warm, caring, and compassionate, and will take the time to get to know you in the months, weeks, and days leading up to your ceremony or service. With Bonnie as the officiant, your ceremony will feel personal, meaningful, inspiring, and fun.
Bonnie Foster offers professional officiating services for:
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Elopements
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Weddings
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Commitment ceremonies
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Vow renewals
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Baby naming ceremonies
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Home blessings
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Celebrations of life
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Memorial services
Honoring Your Culture & Traditions
Bonnie Foster is multi-lingual and can integrate other languages and traditions into your ceremony or service. She has a B.A. in Philosophy from UCLA and UCSD, has lived in Europe and the Middle East, traveled the world, and proudly raised two children. Although Bonnie is a native New Yorker, she has lived in San Diego, California for over 20 years and has a passion for helping couples and families make beautiful memories that will last a lifetime.
Guidance for Your Ceremony Every Step of the Way

Bonnie Foster’s family has been in the wedding and event business since she was a child, and she knows the ins and outs of wedding and event planning. Bonnie will help you craft a celebration that feels uniquely you! Depending on your needs and budget, Bonnie can provide guidance on style and design, help you book your venue and vendors, build a timeline for your ceremony, assist with ceremony music, help you craft your vows or speech, provide day-of coordination, decor, and much more.
Schedule a Phone Call or Meeting with Potential Officiants
Your officiant will play a major role in your ceremony, so you want to make sure you choose an officiant who aligns with your vision and makes you feel at ease. Before you hire an officiant, schedule a phone call or meeting with them to see if you connect. Here are some questions you may want to ask a potential officiant:
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How long have you been an officiant?
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How many ceremonies have you officiated?
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What is your typical ceremony outline like?
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How do you personalize each ceremony you officiate?
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What is your process in the months, weeks, days leading up to the ceremony?
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What do you charge for officiating services?
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Can you help us with our ceremony timeline?
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Can you help us with our vows or speeches?
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What will you wear?
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Do you bring your own equipment (such as a microphone and speakers)?
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Do you assist in coordinating the ceremony?
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What makes your officiating services special?
Contact Bonnie Foster to Learn More About Her Officiating Services
Bonnie Foster is based in Southern California, but she provides officiating services across the United States and is also available to travel around the globe. She also provides virtual wedding ceremonies for clients who choose to opt for an online ceremony.
To learn more about Bonnie’s officiating services, please feel free to call or text Bonnie directly at (858) 967-0167 , or email her at the button below. She looks forward to getting to know you and seeing if she can help make your ceremony wonderful and uniquely you.